Bills Bills Bills

I had to deal with lots of bills again. Pay this, pay that and nothing left. Oh life!!! Thinking all this things making me stressful. Our house mortgage occupied a big amount of money and guess what most of it just go to interest and other stuff only just little goes to principal its not even 1/4 . Its just driving me nuts everytime I see the bill. My husband said he maid a mistake when he refinance the house, he was still young that time and not that much knowledge about it so all he do is just follow what his brother said. It used to be his brother's house then my husband bought it from them before he marry me. We try selling this house last year so we can transfer on mmuch cheaper house but didn't sale. According to the appraisal before the house value is less than how much we owe to it. But it should go higher now co's we add some on the house like huge deck at the back .